As I get older, I realise how much of life is really about restraint. What I say. What I react to. What I allow to take up space in my head. I no longer feel the need to explain myself to everyone, or to correct every misunderstanding. Peace is not…
Category: Personal & Family
Personal life, family, and milestone reflections
Brunei Darussalam
25 Years of AnakBrunei: From Pixels to Perspectives
Twenty-five years is a long time in any medium. In the digital world, it is several lifetimes. When this blog first appeared on the nascent internet, in an era when a dial-up connection was the only gateway to the World Wide Web, when “blogger” was not yet a word, and…
Personal & Family
55 today…
Not quite young. Not yet old. Just… 55. Somewhere along the way, birthdays stopped being about cake and candles and started becoming markers of time. Not time wasted, but time lived. Experiences stacked like chapters in a book—some thrilling, some humbling, all instructive. Turning 55 feels different. Not heavier, just……
Brunei Darussalam
40 years on…
As we stand on the brink of Brunei Darussalam’s 40th National Day celebration, I find myself reflecting deeply on what this day signifies for us as a nation and for me personally. This milestone is not just a marker of time; it’s a tapestry of our collective dreams, struggles, and…
The Cat Owns the House. I Just Clean It.
This is not pet ownership. It is facilities management for a furry tenant who contributes nothing financially.
What I Still Carry From My Father
A father leaves more than memories. He leaves habits, values and lessons his children sometimes understand only much later.